this was taken from http://mrsnordin.blogspot.com/2009/05/letting-go.html..this link given by my fren..Fida..thanks fida & thanks for understanding my situation (kita sama je kan sbnrnya hehhe) the words are very touching.....

"So as it is with Allah. Allah is waiting for us to give up the cheap things in our lives so that Allah can give us beautiful treasures. Are you holding onto things which Allah wants you to let go of? Are you holding on to harmful or unnecessary partners, relationships, habits and activities which you have come so attached to that it seems impossible to let go of?

Sometimes, it is so hard to see what is in the other hand, but do believe this one thing : Allah will never take away something without giving you something better to take its place."